The Universal Law of Attraction is a tool for manifesting. It is based on the idea that whatever we give a lot of attention to will become part of our lives. In doing so, you are co-creating with the Universe. What you focus on becomes your reality so it is very important to pay attention to your thoughts, your words, and your actions. Like attracts like. It is truly that simple.
Listen to the words that you speak and know that word modification may be necessary to avoid confusion and to be clear about your intentions. Becoming aware of the words you are using takes time and lots of practice. Listening to other individuals is much easier. I suggest that you really listen when others are speaking and pay attention to their word choices. It will assist you in becoming more aware of your own vocabulary.
In order to use the Law of Attraction effectively and efficiently, it is imperative that you clearly identify what you want, focus your thoughts on what you have identified, and then allow it to manifest. In other words, do not block the manifestation from occurring by infusing it with doubt, worry, and fear. Also, take into consideration that you will attract what you desire if it is for your Highest and Best good. Release the need to control the details of the manifestation process such as the how, the when, the why, the what, and the where of it. Believe it, live it, and you will manifest it if you are intended to.
What I have come to realize is that life is truly all about making choices and then choosing to take action. When we align our thoughts, words, and actions with our beliefs and come from a place of love, AMAZING things happen. We attract those people into our life who are a reflection of us. Assessing relationships and choosing to allow some relationships to run their course, so to speak, is necessary in becoming a better you. As you make the conscious effort to maintain healthy relationships and end unhealthy ones, you are taking control of your life.