Day: December 11, 2014

Transform Your Life, Here’s How.

The Dickens process
The Process is based on Charles Dickens’ character “The Scrooge”, where he meets the ghost on Christmas morning and is shown the future of what his life will be like if he keeps up his current behaviour. This causes so much pain for Scrooge that it changes his life forever, affecting everyone around him.
The Dickens Process uses some simple yet amazing technology from NLP and other sciences. It’s not designed just to consciously think your way into changing because this never works. This process operates on a subconscious and emotional level , in this process people are made to look beyond , they are made to see the future they will be going to have if they carries the same habits weather good or bad. This pattern focuses on taking the human mind ahead with all the present habits and situations making them to see what kind of the future they will have if they follows the same life style.
We all know what we should be doing in life and what needs to change in order to have the life we want but rarely do we ever do it. The simple reason for this is that there is little to no emotional association to what will happen if we continue a negative belief, thought or behaviour.
If you can fully associate to the massive pain of a limiting pattern, this will give you sufficient leverage to change it, the rest is up to you to replace the broken pattern with an empowering alternative and condition it.this makes you associate the pain that you going to face in the coming future coz of the limitations and your own negative beliefs so that you can easily leave all such habits that are causing pain and trouble in your present as well as future.
The good news is that it becomes almost easy to replace a limiting pattern once you get enough leverage.
I will provide an explanation and some instructions for using the Dickens Process. Keep in mind that this is on the printed page and may not provide you with sufficient emotional association for change but it is aimed at introducing you to this amazing transformational technique.
Get yourself into a position that you feel is easiest to visualise and emotionally associate to memories both real and constructed/projected anything that you can easily think of  or any habit that you want to leave but you are still carrying the same .This process is about associating massive pain to your limiting patterns so it is best done in a position you don’t find too comfortable such as standing.So be comfortable and feel relaxed before you proceed .
Another reason for standing is that you have much more access to all the movements of your physiology, which, as I have mentioned before, is one of the key ingredients to emotional states. Your body tells you how to feel.
Now, visualise your life right now. What do you have in your life?what you achieved ?? What are you missing out on in your life? What limiting patterns do you indulge in? what is there that stops you to move ahead?? Are they emotions? Are they behaviours? Are they limiting beliefs or decisions?
Once you are emotionally associated to the pain of what you are missing out on in the present moment, rise up above your life and see it from above the stream of time, see yourself in the picture while dissociated.
Still above the stream of time, travel back in time and drop in on some of your most painful moments. How have your limiting patterns affected you up until now? With the benefit of hindsight, what do you regret? What would you never do if you had your time over?
Feel the feelings, see this sights, hear the sounds of each moment as if you were reliving it right now. Keep traveling back through your stream of time dropping in on your most regrettable and painful moments that you would love to change. Emotionally associate to each as if it were happening all over again.
Now, rise up again above the stream of time and travel back to the present moment. What have your limiting beliefs and patterns cost you? Travel out into your future above the stream of time. Drop in to your life three months into the future.
What have your limiting patterns cost you having not changed them? What is your life like in three months having held onto these limiting patterns? Associate to the massive pain you will feel as if it is happening now. Do the same for 6 months, one year, 5 years and 10 years.
Travel back to your present moment with the benefit of foresight now that you truly know what the cost of these limiting patterns are. What are your new empowering patterns and beliefs?? How will you replace the limiting ones?your strengths ??
Project back into the future now that you have changed your limiting patterns, beliefs and behaviours. Associate to the massive pleasure you now have after changing these patterns once and for all.
Now celebrate your new compelling future!!!
 Have you ever thought that if you could go back to a certain time in your life when “it all went wrong” then you could use your new wisdom and hindsight to change the rest of your life?
The problem is that we can never have the past back but you can prevent the same problems from ever happening in the future. Look at it this way, every problem we ever have is usually imagined because what we generally fear hasn’t happened yet, it’s what we fear might result out of a given situation.
The power of the Dickens Process is that you are given advanced warning to change what will certainly cause you tremendous pain in the future.
I hope you gained something from this issue.


The Inner-Self Of Shiva !!!

Shiva is auspiciousness. Shiva is bliss. Shiva is the consciousness. More importantly, Shiva is the Self of one and all.
It is said that God sleeps in rocks, dreams in plants, wakes up in animals and becomes aware of Himself in human beings. Human being is the vehicle for Universal consciousness to the Glory of the Self as the creation.
Lord Shiva is giving a call for all of us to wake up from the dream of limited concept of self, based on body-mind-intellect complex to experience nature of Him in the core of our being. To experience Lord Shiva as our inner Self and as the Self of the whole creation is to the find deeper meaning in life which frees us from the conflicts imposed by the perceived qualities of creation.



Pure awareness is one‟s Self.
Pure awareness is the Self of one and all. Pure awareness is Lord Shiva whose nature is existence, consciousness and bliss. Everything and everyone is Lord Shiva. There is nothing other than Lord Shiva. Lord Shiva is the inner reality of mind and body and outer reality of cosmos. Blissful nature of Lord Shiva is the sum and substance of the Universe.

Shiva and Shakti
Shakti is the energy of Lord Shiva. Lord Shiva and Shakti are one. Shiva is Shakti and Shakti is Shiva. They are inseparable like heat in fire or fragrance of flower. She is the Self-awareness of Shiva and also the power of consciousness by which everything else is revealed. She expresses in the form of infinite Will, Wisdom and Action of Lord Shiva. As Universal Mother, she creates, sustains and destroys the whole Universe.

Shiva and Jiva
Jiva is the atomic soul manifested from Lord Shiva. Shiva is jiva and jiva is Shiva. By His own power of Will, Lord Shiva takes the form of infinite number of atomic souls or javas by restricting His
power of Will, Wisdom and Action. The essential nature of Lord Shiva existence, consciousness and bliss does not get affected in spite of His expansion as creation.

Parama Shiva and Spanda Shakti
Parama Shiva is the transcendent form of Shiva unaffected by taking the limited form of jiva. In His transcend form, He is pure awareness. Shakti – the energy, in the form of subtlest vibration is the heartbeat of Parama Shiva. Because of pulsation of Spanda Shakti, whole of the Universe is created sustained and dissolved. She is also called Para Shakti in this form.

Shiva and Universe
The creation is nothing but Lord Shiva. Universe consisting of five elements space, air, fire, and water and earth element are nothing but forms of energy. Energy is of the form Shakti – the expression of Lord Shiva. In other words, the creation is the creator.


Men Abuse- Myths and Fact !!!

The history of the abuse of women is well documented and incontrovertible. Women have gained a respectable status in society over a period of time, people talk about equality for all, and they say men and women should be treated equally but, are they actually treated equally?? Women these days are more superior in fact they are made superior and somehow this has raised the issue of men security. What is more hidden and wrapped in myth is the fact of the abuse of men.

It is probably counter intuitive to think of men as subjected to emotional and physical abuse as the hands of women but it does happen. A study conducted by Dr. Robert J.Reid clearly points out the bitter truth that abused men are understudied and hidden.

There are also a number of myths surrounding the issue of abused men.


Myth 1: Men are not physically abused by women.

Fact: There is a 40% rate of domestic violence cases involving men being abused by women. Also, physical abuse of men includes being kicked, hit and forced to have sexual relations against their will, yes at times men are forced to have sex even if they don’t feel like having it. The non-physical abuse includes being the target of threats and the recipient of disparaging remarks and curses.


Myth 2: Men are not affected when women are abusive.

 Fact: Men suffer from depression as a result of being abused; in some cases this leads to complete mental disorders if not treated well in time. Men suffer in silence for a number of reasons, making them less likely to report the abuse. Men may be Embarrassed or think they can handle the abuse.


Myth 3: Men are free to leave abusive relationships as compared to women who often have children or money to worry about.

 Fact: In actuality, men have as much difficulty leaving abusive relationships as do women. As a result, they remain despite ongoing abuse. Some male victims also fear they may be ridiculed for admitting their female partner has abused them. A man who calls the police to report domestic violence is three times more likely to be arrested than the woman. Most victims actually minimize the violence that happens to them because of the guilt, shame, and self-blame attached to victimization, and because others do not believe them or refuse to listen. Leaving is often the hardest thing for a victim to accomplish, and is commonly harder than staying.


Myth 4: Domestic abuse affects only people from poor families or from minority groups.

 Fact: Domestic violence of all types does not discriminate. Families from all ethnic, racial and socio-economic groups are affected by domestic violence. It doesn’t categorize based on the earning per capita or the lifestyle one has neither on the basis of religion nor society they are living in. You can notice anyone suffering from Men abuse irrespective of his family or economic background, most common example is men being abused by their superior lady official in an office.


Myth 5: If domestic violence and abuse is ignored it will eventually end.

Fact: No problem can ever be solved if ignored again and again, the only way out is to face it, and put enough efforts to fight with the problem. The same is the case with men abuse, the history of domestic violence and abuse of all kinds clearly shows that, if ignored, it will become more violent and in some cases, ending in death. Therefore there is a need of awareness among people on how to deal with this, instead of ignoring they must help someone suffering from such violence.


I request the readers to share this and help in awareness.


Thanks Readers.