Surround yourself with positive people!
If you are ever going to live a satisfying, meaningful and successful life, the kind of people you surround yourself with plays an important role. It is being said that you are who you surround yourself with. If you hang out with positive people, you’ll be a positive person and if you hang out with negative people, you’ll definitely see life from a negative angle.
Try to answer these questions;
Who is on your team?
Who do you hang out with?
Who are those you spend most of your time with?
Are they people that build you up or the ones that pull you down?
Are they feeding the positive side of you or the ones that feeds the negativity?
Birds of a feather flock together. Many friends don’t have anything good to offer. They are with you to only impact you negatively.
If you keep friends that don’t add to you in any way, I bet they are not worthy to be called your friends. Don’t not worry about what they think of you. There will always be those who want to see you fail simply because they can’t succeed.
Beware of toxic and negative relatives, friends or colleagues. Flee from them as fast as you can because they don’t deserve you. It is impossible for negative people to bring forth anything positive out of you. Negative people possess negative mindset.
They see no reason to pursue their dreams because they already saw it as an impossible task even right before they started it. They might not have ever imagined what you must be willing to achieve. They can never let you succeed in such a situation.
Possibility doesn’t exist in their dictionary. When you tell negative people about your dreams, they tell you only about the challenges in order to make you lose focus. They hardly see the goals. For you to achieve success, you need to first imbibe a positive mindset yourself. You need to see possibilities in your dreams. Then surround yourself with positive people that believe in your dreams. People that build you up mentally, physically and spiritually. People that are ready to influence you positively. People that you learn from always. People that their advices you can’t joke with. People that make you believe success is achievable! Because that is why you are here. You deserve success.
You must pursue the greatness you have, you are born with huge potential and you have no right to limit yourself. You have to and you MUST succeed.
Most Of the time people Give up just because they fail to resolve their own Internal Conflicts..
Once you manage to overcome your Internal Conflicts, you will be able to take Instant Decision.. On your Own!!!
This pattern helps with the very common problem of disagreement between parts.
When you struggle with yourself to do or not do something, when you procrastinate
what you must do now and seem to be arguing with yourself in your mind, this is the pattern to use.
Follow these simple steps to Fight the problem of Internal Conflicts…
Step 1. The Conflict
Select a personal conflict. This can be anything, “Shall I listen to what they say”? or “Should I ignore them” ? It may be something you’ve contradictory feelings about, or some way that you sabotage yourself or cannot accept yourself. Reason can be anything, just take that situation.
Step 2. A Memory
Recall a memory of experiencing this inner conflict. When did you felt it?? View it from the observer position. Analyse it, Observe it.
Step 3. Take a Side
Get into the first perceptual position with one side of the conflict. Step into the experience. Review the OTHER side of the conflict from this position. Notice what comes up during this in all sense modes.
Step 4. Positive Intention
Still on that side, ask the other side to express all of its positive intentions, including any beliefs ( set by your o others for you ) and goals that it can express to your side.
Step 5. Switch
Now step into the other part. From this position, repeat steps three and four.
Repeat this switching and receiving until both sides have a good understanding of each other. Be sure to include beliefs ( including limiting beliefs ), values, and objectives.
Step 7. Meta-Position (Above usual)
Move to a meta-position above both parts. From there, ask the parts to propose solutions or outcomes that they expect to be satisfactory to both sides. Draw out concerns from either side about these ideas, and note any ecological issues. Do as much brain-storming as you need to in order to come up with a good collection of ideas.
Step 8. New Part
Notice how this new collection of ideas is an amalgam of the values and higher intentions of the two parts. It is also an agenda. Experience how it could be considered a part all on its own. Bring this part into your body and accept it as an important part.
Step 9. Future Pace and Test
Imagine a future with this part creating results for you. Redo this process as needed for any ecological concerns or problems. Test it out in real life and come back to this process as needed.
Practice it a few times to get results you always wanted.
Feel free to share this with people you know, so that they can get some benefit as well. !!
In life we have choices. And sometimes we make the wrong ones.
In our youth, we fall down many times, we get back up and try again, we work ourselves into ruts, and we party ourselves into “situations.” We change our mind many times, and become frustrated at the process, defiantly and blindly choosing something by default. We study hard and then realize we hate the direction we’re headed
We delve into career paths and then decide they’re not for us. We build up the constructs of our lives – the house, the car, the job, the payments – and one day we wake up and realize we’re miserable. At this point, we’re faced with yet another choice: do I continue on in this path of misery because I’ve worked so hard for it, or do I make a change so that I can have the chance of achieving happiness? This might seem like an easy choice, but it certainly isn’t.
Starting over again from nothing isn’t a simple feat, and it certainly isn’t kind on the ego. You’ll be judged for your decision, your family will likely think your crazy, and your friends will try to talk you out of it. But guess what? Your friends and family are likely the ones who encouraged you into the path that ended up making you miserable, not on purpose of course; they want what’s best for you. But only you know what’s best for you. When you opt to take responsibility for your own life, you will make the latter choice. You will let go of your pride, and all of the constructs that reflect the progress you’ve made in your life, and you will start again.
You will go forth into a new path, and you will create a life for yourself that you love. When you make this decision, you are on your way to greatness. When you are willing to sacrifice everything in order to achieve the life you’ve always dreamed of, you will get there. Even just for the simple fact that you are no longer scared because you have nothing to lose – there’s nothing worse than the misery you know all too well. You are older now and you have clarity. Unlike before, you can now make the right choice based on experience. You were simply too young to know better before, and the mistake of going in the wrong direction because of that is all too common.
I can’t fathom why in the world anyone – our teachers, our parents, our government, or anyone else – would pressure us to make up our minds when we’re too young to decide correctly. Seems like a failure waiting to happen, doesn’t it? My argument is that the point of life is not to just get by. The purpose of your life is much greater than to go to work and make a pay cheque in order to pay rent and put food on the table. The purpose of your life extends much further than simply being able to access the necessities of living. And you should be able to live within your work as opposed to just outside of it.
The purpose of your life is to do something, be something, and live some way that makes you overwhelmingly, stupidly happy. The purpose of your life is to contribute something positive and remarkable to the world, and to leave your mark through something that is meaningful – both to you and others. The purpose of your life is to discover, learn, love, and be happy while breathing every single day.
If you find yourself at this difficult point – the crossroads of your life’s path – and are having difficulty deciding which road to follow, simply ask yourself the question…. …… If you’re not doing what you love, then what’s the point?
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When Someone Underestimates you, don’t feel bad. Prevent the Negativity to surround you instead use their words to work for you as a Trigger- The Driving force that will Inspire you at every stage and force you to Fight back in any situation. This is what Ferruccio Lamborghini did.
Lamborghini was drawn more to farming machinery rather than the farming lifestyle itself. Following his interest in mechanics, Lamborghini studied at the Fratelli Taddia technical institute near Bologna. In 1940 he was drafted into the Italian Royal Air Force, where he served as a mechanic at the Italian garrison on the island of Rhodes, becoming the supervisor of the vehicle maintenance unit.
Who was Ferruccio Lamborghini?
Ferruccio Elio Arturo Lamborghini (April 28, 1916 – February 20, 1993) was an Italian industrialist. Born to grape farmers from the comune of Renazzo di Cento in the Emilia-Romagna region, his mechanical know-how led him to enter the business of tractor manufacturing in 1948, when he founded Lamborghini Trattori, which quickly became an important manufacturer of agricultural equipment in the midst of Italy’s post-war economic reform. In 1963, he most famously created Automobili Lamborghini, a maker of high-end sports cars in Sant’Agata Bolognese
The sole reason of shifting his business from farm vehicles to super-power cars was Enzo Ferrari’s undermining words, “you stick to tractors and let me build sports cars.”
And Today, we all Know what “Lamborghini’s are Known for !!!!
Because Words Can Inspire…1. “No man can succeed in a line of endeavor which he does not like.” – Napoleon Hill 2.“Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle.” – Christian D. Larson 3. “The price of success is hard work, dedication to the job at hand, and the determination that whether we win or lose, we have applied the best of ourselves to the task at hand.” – Vince Lombardi 4. “You never stop earning when you do what you love.” – Asha Tyson 5. “Change your story, change your life. Divorce the story of limitation, and marry the story of the truth and everything changes.” – Tony Robbins 6. “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.” – Mark Twain 7. “Great work is done by people who are not afraid to be great.” – Fernando Flores 8. “Your success depend on your decision today. Ready to associate yourself with Only Quality People or Powerful People is one of the major ways for us to succeed in life. You are a winner not a loser.” – Rohit Kumar 9. “Just because Fate doesn’t deal you the right cards, it doesn’t mean you should give up. It just means you have to play the cards you get to their maximum potential.” – Les Brown 10. “Realize that if you can instantly create a problem, you can just as quickly and easily create a solution.” – Tony Robbins 11. “Life is 10% of what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it.” – John Maxwell Share One Quote that has Inspired You.
NEVER give up, replace the strategy, and be focused on whatever you are willing to whatever you are working for.. Quitting is not a solution
NEVER give up and work on yourself. Develop discipline daily. Practice what drives you close to your dream, leaving all other things that reduces your chance to succeed…Remember you are a champion and a Champ never give up on him. They always Fight Back no matter how worst the situation is they never quit on themselves.
As you look back now over your “unsuccessful” attempts in the past, ask yourself what you have learnt from them instead of regretting the failure look at the lessons you got from each such attempt. !!!
Most of you gets afraid once you fail to achieve something, you don’t have enough courage to put more efforts on the same thing. Ask yourself what holds you back, whats there that do not let you to stand up and live your dream. Is it a fear of rejection ?? or a Fear of failure??
Remember a Fear is being scared of something that has not yet happened. And the thing that has not happened yet, we still have chance to not let it happen. So you still have a chance to choose what you want, to stand up or to loose.
The only thing you need to ask yourself is – What if you Quit??
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Question : Are there divine preferences, divine injustices and divine irregularities?
Mahatria: It may appear so, but Existential Order is always zero defect. Everything is as it should be. There are no irregularities in Existence. If I may use a metaphor, it doesn’t matter how noble hearted one is, but if he doesn’t know how to drive and yet attempts to drive a vehicle, he is sure to meet with an accident. The suffering of most people is that though they may be good, though they may believe in god, they have failed to develop the competence to live life.
We just believe that worshiping god or the messengers of god or the incarnations of god is sufficient to earn His blessing. We are lost in the ignorance that god will come and save us just as an answer to all our pujas, rituals and offerings. We choose to make various kinds of offerings as kickbacks to please the Lord and expedite matters for us, tilt opportunities in our favour, prolong the life of our loved ones, etc… but we have conveniently chosen to ignore principles like Honesty, Integrity, Karma and so many other virtues, which find common mention across all scriptures.
Think about it. If worshipping the Lord is sufficient, then why the Bible? Why the Koran? Why the Bhagawad Gita? Why any scripture for that matter? In fact, the very basis of every scripture is to teach you and me the components of Existential Order, so that you and I can live our lives in alignment with the Existential Order. Even if you are a maths teacher’s son, if two plus two is written as three, you are wrong. Even if you know nothing about the examiner, if two plus two is written as four, you are right.
Even those who do not know ‘Who is god?’, even those who do not believe in the existence of god, as long as they live in alignment to the Existential Order, which is what every scripture is all about, they will always be blessed by His grace. The more you are aligned to the Existential Order, the more you’ll experience His Grace. Grace is the spiritual reward for aligning yourself to the Existential Order.
Suffering is a spiritual feedback that somewhere you have lost your alignment to the Existential Order. God is not a matter of belief, but a matter of alignment.Why did the incarnate Krishna waste his time preaching eighteen chapters, answering and clarifying every question of Arjuna? Krishna could have simply told Arjuna – go around me thrice, pour some milk and ghee over me, smear sandalwood paste all over your body, fall at my feet four times and just shoot your arrows. Then, why at all the Bhagawad Gita?
If going to church on Sunday mornings and faith in Christ are enough, then why did Christ waste three years of his life sermonising ‘Dos’ and ‘Don’ts’ which became the Bible? If doing Namaz five times a day is enough, then why all those ‘Dos’ and ‘Don’ts’ in the Koran?
The Mahabharata shows that Duryodana took all the resources of Krishna, and that was not enough. Arjuna had Krishna himself, and that too was not enough. Only when Arjuna understood the Dharma (Existential Order) and acted in alignment with it was he able to emerge victorious. The message is clear and simple – god does not work for you; He works with you. His design is such that the only way He can work with you is when you live in alignment with the Existential Order.
If god is the Messenger, the scriptures are his Message. The only way to have the grace of the Messenger is to live by the Message. It is just not enough to value the Master… you must Master the values. Be devoted to the Messenger, but be disciplined by the Message.
Extracts from “Clarity is Power”.
“If you can change your mind, you can change your life.
What you believe creates the actual fact.
The greatest revolution of my generation is to discover that
Individuals, by changing their inner attitudes of mind, can change
the outer aspects of their lives.”
– William James
Transform self-sabotage into success. By discovering the positive intent behind a negative behavior or attitude,
you can release tremendous energy and positive commitment. In his outstanding book Sleight Of Mouth:
The Magic Of Conversational Belief Change, master trainer and famous NLP developer Robert Dilts says:
“At some level all behavior is (or at one time was) “positively intended.” It is or was perceived as appropriate given the context in which it was established, from the point of view of the person whose behavior it is. It is easier and more productive to respond to the intention rather than the expression of a problematic behavior. “
Here are the steps to Find Positive Intentions in the whatever you do…
Step #1. Define the problem.
Briefly state the problem with enough detail so that it is clear in your mind. Mind must be clear about what
the exact problem is. It may primarily be a situation, personal problem, or a challenge. Define what meaning you
give to an Unproductive Behavior. Be clear about what behavior is productive. State the reason for the meaning you gave,
why any particular behavior is unproductive as per you. You must be clear about it, with no confusions.
Step #2. Reveal the Underlying Motives
Take a few minutes to relax, breathe deeply and lay back. Now, go inside, imagine your mind has special internal messengers.”
These are parts of your personality, which have characteristic tendencies or habitual behaviors.
Find the part that is responsible for generating the unproductive behavior.
Bring this part into awareness as though it were a complete personality.
Remember that a part is an aspect of you.
A part is like a little personality inside of you. In order to be aligned and successful,
you must not work at cross purposes with yourself. This requires negotiating or working with your parts.
Now imagine that you can do a role playing game with this particular part. Ask the part what it
wanted to have, do or become, through the negative behavior or attitude. What value or benefit it
expects to get from this. Ask directly, “What did you wish for me to accomplish by doing this?”
Take as much time as you need to imagine and listen to the part’s responses.
Step #3. Get to the core motives.
Keep asking “why” and “what” questions to clarify the motives. Recycle each answer into a new question.
Practice questioning until you feel that you have gotten to the core motives. You should identify a
core belief along with the core value and core reasons for the behaviors or attitudes that, at first glance,
seem to be unsupportive of you.
Anchoring is how we get into the right state for what we want to do.
You connect a symbol with the desired state, or resource state. It’s called a resource state, because
you are more resourceful when you are in that state. This is the state when you can
make the best use of the resources you have. Of course, the state must be a good resource state
for what you have in mind. It must be congruent to what you wished to accomplish. If you have
intense confidence and desire for opportunity as a resource state, it would be very
good for a job interview, and maybe not so good for being a grief counselor.
Here’s a Short yet Useful Script that will surely help you to practice Anchoring on your own-self.
Decide what state you want to create an anchor for. For example, perhaps you would like
to anchor a good state for meeting and negotiating. Whatever it is chose one … Move into
third position, as if you are watching your life in a movie. Recall all the times that you felt
some aspect of that state.
Every time you feel some aspect of the desired state, amplify it and expand it.
See yourself in the movie experiencing that state, and let yourself as the observer
feel it as well. (That’s a little different from the usual third position experience.)
Keep doing that until you feel the state intensely …
Each time you think of a time in which you felt some aspect of that state, see what
is most visually positive and compelling. Emphasize those visual elements in the
movie. Hear what is most audibly positive and compelling … Hear any words that
others said or that you could say that are most mentally positive and compelling …
Feel what is most palpably positive and compelling … Feel whatever internal
sensations are most positive and compelling, like feeling very up or expansive … See
yourself now, standing in a nice place,fully feeling that state, and see how you look
in that state–your facial expression, your posture, you can even add cosmic energy
of just the right color streaming into your aura.
Now create a sign with your hand such as an OK sign, one that you would not
do very often, or interlace your fingers in the opposite way from normal, and hold
that position while you imagine moving into first position (directly in the feelings)
with your eyes closed (so there are no distractions from the feeling), and savor the
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About a hundred years ago, a man looked at the morning newspaper and to his surprise and horror, read his name in the obituary column. The news papers had reported the death of the wrong person by mistake. His first response was shock. Am I here or there? When he regained his composure, his second thought was to find out what people had said about him.
The obituary read, “Dynamite King Dies.” And also “He was the merchant of death.” This man was the inventor of dynamite and when he read the words “merchant of death,” he asked himself a question, “Is this how I am going to be remembered?” He got in touch with his feelings and decided that this was not the way he wanted to be remembered.
From that day on, he started working toward peace. His name was Alfred Nobel and he is remembered today by the great Nobel Prize. Alfred Nobel 1833-1896 Since 1901, the Nobel Prize has been honoring men and women from all corners of the globe for outstanding achievements in physics, chemistry, medicine, literature, and for work in peace.
The foundations for the prize were laid in 1895 when Alfred Nobel wrote his last will, leaving much of his wealth to the establishment of the Nobel Prize Just as Alfred Nobel got in touch with his feelings and redefined his values, we should step back and do the same.
What is your legacy?
How would you like to be remembered?
Will you be spoken well of?
Will you be remembered with love and respect?
Will you be missed? !!!
#Remember:- Your Life is a your message to the world, make sure its Inspiring.